Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Trans*+
Buckinghamshire Local Support for LGBT*+
Aylesbury Vale LGBT Social Group – LGBTIQ+ events and social group, based in the Aylesbury Vale area of Buckinghamshire, UK, in association BucksMIND, Buckinghamshire Recovery College and the International Gender and Sexuality Alliance.
LGBT Bucks – LGBT Bucks aims to inform Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender people about services in and around Buckinghamshire
OutLoud LGBT and Youth Group (High Wycombe) – Offering support, friendship, refreshments, arts and crafts and sports.
Qalliance – Q:alliance is a registered charity that provides support, information and representation for the LGBTQ+ people who live, work and play in Milton Keynes.
The Proud Trust – Youth LGBT Trust is based in Manchester. It has lots of useful information for young people and includes services local to Bucks.
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Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans*+
LGBT+ stands for ‘lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans*, plus’. We use the term LGBT+ to cover people who are not heterosexual and/or who are not cisgender. The ‘+’ ensures all gender identities and sexual orientations are included. You can read what these terms mean below.
No one really knows what influences our sexuality but every single one of us has a sexual orientation and who we are attracted to is not something we’re in control of or can choose.
Some people fancy the same gender as them (and are commonly described as gay or homosexual), some people fancy the opposite gender to them (heterosexual), some people fancy all genders (pansexual), some people don’t fancy anyone (asexual)! Sexuality is as diverse as people are.
Here are some terms you may have heard of, and what they mean:
Heterosexual: Women who only fancies men, or a man who only fancies women is called heterosexual.
Homosexual (gay/lesbian): People who are homosexual are attracted to the same sex (men fancy men and women fancy women). Homosexual men are often called gay and homosexual women are often called lesbians but can also be called gay.
Bisexual or bi: People who are bisexual are attracted to both men and women
Pansexual: Pansexual people are people attracted to people regardless of their gender.
Asexual (or ace): People who are asexual or ace don’t feel sexually attracted to anyone and feel no desire to have sex.
Queer: The word queer is a term covering all non-straight sexualities. It was originally used as an insult, but now some people choose to call themselves queer because they don’t feel like other labels for sexuality fit them properly.
Trans*: Trans is a latin word that means ‘across’ or ‘on the other side of’. It’s used in this context because of the words transgender and transexual which doctors used to use to talk about situations where people disagree with the gender they’ve been given. Transexual is quite an old fashioned term now, but transgender is still used, to describe people who move from one gender to another.
You’ll find people referring to themselves as transmen – who are men who were expected to be women when they were born, and as transwomen – who are women who were expected to be men.
Cisgender: cisgender refers to someone for whom their gender and biological sex are the same.
You can read more about Gender on the Brook Charity website.
This text has been adapted from the Brook Charity website.
The Proud Trust is the home of LGBT+ youth (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans + other identities such as asexual, intersex, questioning…..)
Trans Ally – an easy-to-read guide on how to be an ally to trans and non-binary people.
This page was last updated on June 21, 2019